How to Succeed as a Lawyer
By Roland Boyd
More than 40 years ago, attorney Roland Boyd
of McKinney wrote a letter to his son offering tips on how to be a successful
lawyer. When several State Bar officials saw the letter, they prevailed
upon the elder Boyd to allow the Texas Bar Journal to print it. Boyd agreed
and it appeared in our November 1963 issue.
Dear Son:
You are now in your senior year in law school. Maybe a few things I have
learned in 30 years in the law practice will be helpful. Law school is teaching
you things which will be good for your clients; the following will be good
for you. You cannot have professional happiness unless you are financially
successful.
One of the greatest pleasures in life is achievement. In my judgment, if
you will remember the following 21 things, you will have a long, happy,
and successful career.
1. Remember, the rule of nine:
It works this way — nine people out of 10 are good, honest, intelligent,
decent, and fair-minded people. Therefore, if you want to have the odds,
nine to one, in your favor, get on the right side of the issue. In the legal
profession the right side of the issue is the side that helps society. In
other words, don’t injure your fellow man. In the courtroom the rule
of nine works the same way. Nine times out of 10 the right side wins at
the courthouse. But, I believe that the lawyers in the smaller county seat
cities engaging in the general practice of civil law are more convinced
that the rule of nine really works, than the average city lawyers.
2. Remember, a lawyer’s integrity is of vital concern to the community.
If the butcher, the baker, and the candlestick maker are not honest,
this is not a major catastrophe. But on the other hand, the lawyer plays
such a vital role in the lives of his fellow men that if he is not honest,
it is a major catastrophe. Let me give you some examples of vital roles
a lawyer is called on to play:
(a) A few years ago, shortly after noon in July, the door to
my private office opened; there stood a man, a little past middle age. I
had represented him for many years; he was a successful farmer; he was very
pale, and was trembling all over as he said, “I have just made the
worst mistake a man can possibly make. I have killed a man, I knew a second
after it was done how terrible it was. For God’s sake, help me.”
(b) About 10 years ago, three members of a family, two others of which had
just had visited upon them one of the most horrible crimes that had ever
occurred in Texas, came to my office. This family was face to face with
stark, unnatural tragedy. The spokesman said, “At a family meeting
this morning we all agreed that we wanted you as special prosecutor, to
help us see that justice is done ”
(c) A few weeks ago, an elderly retired farmer, a good, sound citizen, came
to the office bringing with him a smartly and attractively dressed daughter,
apparently about 35 years old. He told me a story of the daughter’s
marriage to an energetic, handsome, well-educated, dynamic young man, how
well he was doing in business, how the family began growing, and then embezzlement,
then divorce, then a new life, then remarriage, then robbery with firearms
and murder, now a death penalty in just a day or so. “We need your
help.”
(d) Several months ago, on Saturday afternoon, while I was in the office
with the outside doors locked, a telephone call from a middle-aged man I
had represented for years, as well as his father before him, in a distressed
voice, said, “I am downstairs, your door locked but I was just praying
that you were in. I must talk to you.” When he arrived, he showed
me several daily newspapers that he had just gotten out of the Post Office
from a distant city. The headlines and front page articles told a story
of a liquor store stickup with the owner being murdered when he tried to
reach for a gun, the capture by police blockade, the laboratory reports
proving conclusively who had fired the shot that killed the owner. His son.
Crying like a baby, the man said: “Help me. What can I do?”
(e) You might be employed by the State Bar of Texas to investigate, brief,
file, and try a fellow lawyer in a disbarment proceeding. This assignment
cannot be taken lightly.
(f) In 30 years of practicing law I have felt that my professional duty
required me to ask a jury to take a man’s life on three different
occasions. In two cases, the jury complied with my request; in the third
the defendant took his own life the day he was sentenced for life. Under
these conditions the only reward life provides is a clear conscience. No
profession can be more vital than one which makes such requirements on its
members. Therefore, the integrity of its members is certainly of major concern
to society.
3. Remember, always be nice to people regardless of their social status,
educational level, or financial rating, because:
(a) That boy who is now “jerking soda” at
the drugstore, 25 years from now might be president of the Investment Bankers
Association of America and be calling you about an important matter in New
York.
(b) That boy who is now picking up scrap metal in the alleys and selling
it to get spending money, 20 years hence might be employing you to examine
titles to ranch lands he is buying in other states.
(c) That boy, who, on graduation from high school, said, “I am not
going to college because I already have all the education I need,”
might many years hence, by being elected chairman of the board of directors
of a major manufacturing concern, prove the truth of his statement.
(d) Some successful people in business can neither read nor write.
4. Remember, in the practice of law under a democratic
form of government there are no secrets.
Therefore, don’t ever be a party to anything, don’t put anything
in a letter, don’t say anything in conference or on the telephone
that you would mind (except for your client’s interest) seeing on
the front page of a newspaper, on TV, or hearing from the witness stand,
or on the radio.
5. Remember, the best way to disarm your enemies is to do what is just
under the circumstances.
It absolutely drives them crazy. Often it will throw them into such confusion
that they become helpless. Ordinarily their “double dealing”
will “backfire” if you don’t resort to the same tactics.
6. Remember, no people have ever developed a better method for settling
disputes among men, than our judicial system.
It was developed by the legal profession, and it has been through fire,
millions of times; although not perfect, it is still the “best”
there is. The “jury” is the heart of the system. Always defend
the system. When you lose a lawsuit, don’t try to tear the courthouse
down.
7. Remember, the important thing, so far as getting legal business is
concerned, is what your homefolks think about you.
Everything on earth connects on to your town and then your block. How high
you go in your profession depends on who employs you. The important employment
I have had in many different matters which has necessitated my being out
of the state much of my time can be traced back to someone very close to
home. So it is what your neighbors say about you that counts.
8. Remember, no profession makes it possible for its members to enjoy
a longer professional life than law.
So long as a lawyer lives he can practice law. So long as he keeps his health
and mind he can do it successfully. Our neighbor, the late Senator, demonstrated
this fact; he practiced law for 70 years.
9. Remember, there is no ceiling on success in the legal profession.
The only limit on the amount of success you can achieve is your time and
energy. And the thought that will give strength to finish when the hour
gets late and going gets rough, is that irrespective of how it might look
to others, you know you are fighting according to the accepted rules of
the game.
10. Remember, the end does not justify the means.
Two wrongs do not make a right. It is better to lose than
not to fight according to the rules. It is extremely easy for a young lawyer
to violate these rules. If you have a growing family to support on a meager
income, there is a strong temptation to become lax on your professional
morals. Many times it might appear necessary to “fudge” a little.
You will profit financially if you don’t do it. The magnitude of responsibility
entrusted to you is in direct proportion to the confidence people have in
you. No one can destroy the confidence of other people in you, except you.
Integrity is key; therefore, you must not only be honest, but also you must
maintain the appearance of honesty.
11. Remember, to be a good lawyer you must first be a good man.
Your sole ambition should be to be a good husband, a good
father, a good neighbor, a good citizen, and a good lawyer. If you achieve
this, you will have achieved all the success there is. The pressure of life.
In the space age, it is very easy for a young man to get the idea that he
must be a dynamic individual, he must break all records, he must set the
world on fire. If he gets this idea, he starts life with a handicap. The
papers are full of such cases at this time.
12. Remember, don’t ever put your interest in the fee ahead
of your interest in the case.
Your future depends more on the manner in which you handle the case than
on the amount of the fee you collect.
13. Remember, the primary purpose of the legal profession is to
find, recognize, interpret, and preserve the truth.
The quicker you can learn the truth about any situation,
the better off you will be. After you learn it, don’t join issue against
it.
14. Remember, your clients subconsciously make you the guardian
of their morals.
As inconspicuously as possible you should assume this responsibility.
If you do, and discharge it properly, it will help you build a good law
practice:
(a) Many years ago a client who lived in a nearby city
came to the office and said, “That case you are representing me in,
I got to thinking, that property represents 90 percent of my life’s
work. If you lose that case, I am ruined. A man told me if I would go to
so and so and pay him $10,000, then my property would be reappraised at
a high figure and I could settle without a trial. I have about decided to
do it that way. What do you think?” I told him in my opinion he would
be making the greatest mistake he had ever made; that he had always been
honest and I couldn’t see any reason for him to change this late in
life. He reluctantly agreed. A few months later he was well pleased with
the outcome of his case, and told me many times that I kept him from ruining
a happy and successful life. He consulted me on every important matter for
the balance of his life.
(b) A few years ago about mid-morning I got a call from a local citizen
who was then in a distant city. He made an appointment as soon as he could
drive. That afternoon when he arrived, he explained that he had been low
bidder on a big construction contract, that the second bidder had approached
him on the proposition that if he did not qualify, the second bidder would
be awarded the contract, then he would let him do the work and they would
split the difference in the two bids. He wanted me to write a contract that
would bind both parties. After explaining why no lawyer could write that
contract without committing a felony, he decided to qualify and perform,
which he did. He and his entire family have been my clients since then.
15. Remember, the courtroom is where the showdown comes.
This is where the lawyer must “put up or shut up.”
This is the arena in which you must meet your adversary. There is a large
segment of the profession who avoid the courtroom in every possible manner.
This is a mistake. Of course, the courtroom is strictly the last resort,
but I never had any luck in handling matters in negotiation until I got
the situation in good shape for the courtroom. If you have a good case and
are well prepared, nine times out of 10 you don’t have to try it.
If you are not well prepared, you will either lose the case or coerce your
client into an unfair settlement. Trial work is essential for the general
practitioner; until you have a fair estimate of what you can or can’t
do at the courthouse, you have no true standard by which to measure your
case. The trial lawyer is to the legal profession what the surgeon is to
the medical profession. An office lawyer who never goes into the courtroom
never knows whether he is rendering the right kind of service to his clients.
To be a good “trial lawyer” you must know why, where, when,
and how people “tick.” The highest compliment that can be paid
a lawyer is to say “He is a good trial lawyer.”
16. Remember, there is no sure way to bind men together and keep
them bound by any written instrument.
The only thing that binds men together is the fact that under all circumstances
most men, without knowing what the other will do, will reach for the golden
rope of justice, truth, decency, and fairness and thereby bind themselves
to every other person who grasps the same rope. This is the only combine
that will endure.
17. Remember, to live for your fiftieth birthday.
Soon after I graduated and opened my office, one of the service clubs had
as guest speaker an evangelist who was holding a revival in a big tent on
the trade lot. In his talk he said: “I don’t care what your
life’s work is; if you are a young man just beginning, I am going
to tell you what to expect from life. If from now until your fiftieth birthday
you will make every decision in your business or profession in such a way
as you think helps society, from your fiftieth birthday on, for the balance
of your life, the pleasure you get from your life’s work will double
every 12 months. On the other hand, if your decisions are against society,
your disappointments and your miseries will double every 12 months.”
I am now three years past my fiftieth birthday. I believe the man was right.
18. Remember, money loses most of its importance when you get sufficient
food, clothing, and shelter for you and your family.
And at this point with most people the pleasure diminishes as the amount
increases. People who have nothing but money have very little.
19. Remember, that the happiest man on earth is the man who has
to work for a living.
20. Remember, that many of your thrills, excitement, unusual experiences,
etc. , will come in peculiar fashion and at unexpected times:
(a) A call from an undertaker saying the funeral has started,
that he is calling for one of the mourners who asked that you not accept
employment from any one else until he could get to your office after the
funeral.
(b) While walking to the office just at sun-up during the middle of a long,
vicious trial, on coming to an intersection, seeing a man standing in the
middle of the walk, with no other human being in sight, who three days before
said he was going to whip you, on account of your role in the trial.
(c) The woman who drove 20 miles, rushed into your office, and said, “I
just heard you died of a heart attack. Thank God it wasn’t true.”
(d) On driving up to a filling station, the owner whom you don’t remember
ever having seen before, saying to a child: “Honey, go get your mother;
this man talked us out of getting a divorce many years ago. We both want
to thank him.”
(e) Clients who send more than their fee, and say you didn’t charge
them enough (this doesn’t happen often, but it gives you a thrill
when it does).
(f) Thank you letters from distant heirs that you have never met.
(g) People coming to your office as new clients, whom you have previously
sued.
21. Remember, that the people who stay hitched the longest usually
fare the best.
I believe you have the ability to succeed in medicine, engineering,
business, or almost anything you might want to undertake, but you don’t
have the time. To become thoroughly qualified, to establish yourself and
to succeed in any line requires an entire lifetime. So the people who chart
a course early in life and stay with it are usually the ones who enjoy the
greatest success. In the legal profession this same principle applies to
location. Many times each month, people come to my office as a result of
some association with them or other members of the family several years
ago. If you don’t stay put in one spot, you lose this advantage.
I believe that after you have practiced law for 30 years, you too, will
know that law is the greatest
profession there is.
Sincerely,
Your Father
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